absolutely destroy the idea that you have to be loved romantically and love romantically

destroy the idea that the end goal of life is to get into a romantic relationship/marriage

romantic love isn’t a requirement to live life and it never will be

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via  from-paris-to-manchester  (originally  roborenard)
1 day ago on 1 September 2014 ~ 6:45pm 9,549 notes


I don’t know why i even bother getting crushes on people because its not like i’m going to end up dating them anyway so like its such a waste of feelings

I wish my 15/16-year-old self had known this…

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via  lovingthestrokes  (originally  satisfiedparadise)
5 days ago on 28 August 2014 ~ 11:20pm 16,322 notes



this fucking mentality that you can’t be best friends with your significant other, that romance ruins a friendship, that BOTH FRIENDSHIP AND ROMANCE CANNOT OCCUR SIMULTANEOUSLY kills me like

that’s such a horrible, horrible and unhealthy mentality to have

via  extraordinarilyextraordinary  (originally  owldee)
1 week ago on 22 August 2014 ~ 8:20am 49,765 notes


friends are constantly coming to me for advice about their relationships and love lives and i’m just


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via  gatissed  (originally  shewhohangsoutincemeteries)
2 months ago on 4 July 2014 ~ 2:53pm 301,844 notes

It sucks when someone you have feelings for doesn’t share those feelings; it happens to women all the time, too. We hear “I just want to be friends” and “you’re like one of the guys” and “you’re like a sister to me” just as often. But you’ll never hear a woman complain that guys just don’t appreciate a Nice Girl because we’re taught it’s our own fucking fault when we’re rejected—we aren’t pretty enough or thin enough or sexy enough, we weren’t sexual enough or were too sexual, we put out too much or too little or too soon or not soon enough, we didn’t wear our hair the right way or our skirt the right length, we’re “too tomboyish” or “too butch” or “too feminine”, or we’re “not their type”, or we’re otherwise not good enough in various ways to entice the man to grace us with his affection.

But when we’re not interested in someone, we’re vilified. We’re the bitch that lead them on, the bitch who let them buy us dinner but didn’t want to date them, the bitch who doesn’t appreciate a nice guy, the bitch they were nice to and then got nothing in return from.

And, frankly, fuck those people. Showing interest in me, being friendly with me, getting close to me, or eating a meal with me (even if they paid for it) doesn’t obligate me to open my heart or my legs. And anyone who doesn’t appreciate my friendship sure as hell doesn’t deserve my love or my pussy.

~ Unknown (via consucuerpo)
via  consucuerpo  (originally  imielise)
2 months ago on 2 July 2014 ~ 8:26am 251,731 notes

Untitled on We Heart It.


Untitled on We Heart It.

via  carlatolentino  (originally  carlatolentino)
2 months ago on 15 June 2014 ~ 10:13pm 174 notes


let’s 96 (ignore each other)

via  stgbuckybarnes  (originally  nosdrinker)
2 months ago on 13 June 2014 ~ 11:30pm 236,450 notes





Watch Honey Maid’s awesome answer about the backlash they received 

so powerful

This is beautiful and perfect and EXACTLY as the world should be.


Ah, so that is the backstory to the project. Brilliant reaction.

via  alizrak  (originally  sizvideos)
2 months ago on 12 June 2014 ~ 8:29pm 531,936 notes
She liked herself better because of him. And since he clearly felt the same, there was a kind of infinite regress of love and respect underlying their relationship. At least, that was how she described it to herself. In the presence of so many of her friends, she had felt an undercurrent of loneliness. With Ken, it was gone.

"Contact" (1985) - Carl Sagan

That must be very interesting. Of course, this is something that happens unconsciously. But my only experience with happiness is complete isolation and complete lack of (self-)reflection.

4 months ago on 20 April 2014 ~ 3:54pm


If you take a stance against this relationship-positive society, a lot of people will try to prove you wrong and try to convince you that everyone will end in a relationship and those who don’t are weird and no one should aspire to lead a life without relationships.

Well, thanks guys, not only do you make me feel even more insecure, but also you know nothing about how I struggled to fit into this as a teenager. Do not try to talk to me about relationships when you know nothing about my adolescence.

There is this really troubling idea that naiveté is a thing, that you can trivialize people by calling them naive and innocent, but this is bullshit propaganda spread by the media.

It’s like women can only be virgins or sluts and I am not going to divide people like that.

Not being in a relationship does not make you any more naive than being in a relationship. There are so many naive people in relationships, so many people who are “not ready” yet, so well… You cannot explain it.

People manage to get into a relationship, some people don’t and it is not about how intelligent or experienced people are. Of course, if you have never been in a relationship, you cannot have that experience, but there are many other factors that make you “qualified” for relationships, if there is such a thing.

I decided I do not need one and trying to get into a relationship is not something I have time for. I struggle enough as it is and a relationship at this point of my life is more of a burden than a help.

This is a thing most people don’t talk about. Yes, most will admit that a relationship takes perseverance, trust and courage, but they won’t say that it will make life even harder.

I won’t be able to share my thoughts on relationships because I cannot know about it, so please accept if I don’t want to get into this.

To me it feels like most people are in some kind of cult, doing something that is possible, but not necessarily something that I strive for. I don’t do drugs, for example, because I don’t want to and I don’t need to break free from my conventional life either because my life is not very conventional and stressful enough as it is.

There should be more pride about this. I don’t think not being in a relationship is a virtue, but you can also have a meaningful life without one.

There are even quite a lot of people who ARE in relationships, but they don’t make it about sex. Which is ok, too.

Maybe that is the thing that bothers me the most. The assumption that a love relationship equals having sex.

It’s like… you can only choose between two options, while the reality is so different.

4 months ago on 10 April 2014 ~ 11:10pm 1 note